I think common sense is a HUGE factor here. DO NOT EVER pay for something before it is in your hands and you have inspected the item that it meets your satisfaction. Meet at a place where you feel comfortable, NEVER at an apartment complex, preferably somewhere with lots of cameras. Also, record your contact info and let family/friends know who you are meeting. Someone that is trustworthy should not have an issue handing out personal info.
I also don't deal with new members... Sorry, but that's my rule.
I also don't deal with new members... Sorry, but that's my rule.