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tRidiot

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So this is the first time I've been in the building since June, I think. I was out from late March till June, when they started "opening up" I went back once, maybe twice(?) and since then have just been 'attending' virtually through YouTube.

I had COVID in Nov, then I got the shots in late Dec and Jan, so I've been "immune" (for whatever good that does) for at least a few months now, but my wife and kid aren't, so we've been continuing to stay home from church.

We go to the store, we go out to eat sometimes (not like we used to), but we have tried to be somewhat more cautious - I don't want my wife to get sick, and even though she volunteers in the local free clinic, she is categorized as Group 3, which I think means she'll get vaccinated sometime in the summer or fall, at this rate. :blush:

But I've mostly stopped wearing my mask in the grocery store - I still wear it in the clinic, although I will often remove it when actually IN the room with patients and tell them they can do so, as well. We want people wearing them in public areas. We actually had a very contentious vote on this subject in our weekly physicians' meeting last week - we nearly got rid of the mask mandate, but it got kinda snippy, so one person swung their vote back to keep it in place a while longer. We know the time is coming to get rid of the mandate, but not everyone is ready for that, yet.

I did wear my mask in church going to and from my seat, I didn't hang around and hobnob with folks (I'm kinda antisocial, lol).

It's funny, we decided to do the early YouTube church service, as my wife is going up to the church for a class she wanted to attend that started a couple weeks ago and runs during the late service. I'm not going to that because I've already done the same class through my Sunday evening men's group. But after the first service, I just felt like I wanted to go to the live, in-person service. So I did. Same songs, same message, etc., but I just decided, "I'm done with virtual church," so I went ahead and went on in.

Chairs are more spaced out (more room between rows), looks like maybe ½ of the previous crowd there, maybe a little more.

I just thought I'd share. I dunno how many here are doing online church, skipping altogether, or have gone back yet. I realize some of you think going to church at all is moronic, that's ok. I just felt like sharing, I know some people are struggling with this type of decision about now.
 

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Glad to hear it. We did the virtual service for a month or two, but decided that we wanted to be there in person. No issues at all.

Only repercussions we have experienced is my brother in law will not come to our house or socialize because we “go to church” and “that is a breeding ground for the virus.” He also forbids us to talk politics around him so no skin off my nose that he doesn’t want to hang out. Censorship and anti-religion seem to be far too common in today’s world.
 
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I went back as soon as our church resumed an in-person option back in May or June. It's definitely not the same as it used to be; even now we are still wearing masks and spreading out. Folks are discouraged from hanging around in the narthex and talking afterward, although more and more of that is starting to happen.

Online is way better than nothing, but I just don't think you get the same sense of community that way. I think in-person corporate worship is the biggest thing we do to promote unity in the body of Christ. I'm glad to hear you went back!
 

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Glad to hear it. We did the virtual service for a month or two, but decided that we wanted to be there in person. No issues at all.

Only repercussions we have experience is my brother in law will not come to our house or socialize because we “go to church” and “that is a breeding ground for the virus.” He also forbids us to talk politics around him so no skin off my nose that he doesn’t want to hang out. Censorship and anti-religion seem to be far too common in today’s world.
I knocked my brother in law out he doesn't forbid me from doing anything
 

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I am not a believer in organized religion but I do believe in God. Not sure what that is called. The wife does go to church and I have gone with her a few times for special events or services. At any rate, I have no problem with people who attend church and I am happy to see more returning.
 

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I’ve been going regularly for 2 months now since it re-opened. Seating is weird due to spacing & they go overboard with mask rules, have to keep it on. But on the plus side, parking has never been easier.
 

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We had our second vax three weeks ago, so Today was our first time back to Sunday School and Church since April when one of our friends contracted Covid, and died two weeks later. We were very glad to be back.

Services on Facebook Live, and Zoom classes just isn't the same as actually being with good friends.
 
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I will admit, church HAS been a major vector locally for COVID, from my experience. I've seen a LARGE number of elderly folks who believe they caught it from church, some of whom have died. I've personally 'tracked' (informally) several outbreaks at local churches. At our church, I think all but 2 of the staff members have contracted COVID throughout the last 10 months or so.

But, for me personally, I think the decision is the right one - it's time for me, personally, to get back in church. My wife can make her own decision. My kid, well, he ain't gettin' the vaccine anytime soon anyways, so, unless we want to keep him out another 6 months or year, he can go back now, too.

I'm just finally gettin' "over it all" and since it seems to me we may be dealing with this for a long time, if not permanently, what with reinfection now seeming to be a fair possibility, I think we need to just move on and face the music.

I ain't wearing a mask forever.

I am not a believer in organized religion but I do believe in God. Not sure what that is called.

Seems kind of agnostic, to my understanding. I get it.
 

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So this is the first time I've been in the building since June, I think. I was out from late March till June, when they started "opening up" I went back once, maybe twice(?) and since then have just been 'attending' virtually through YouTube.

I had COVID in Nov, then I got the shots in late Dec and Jan, so I've been "immune" (for whatever good that does) for at least a few months now, but my wife and kid aren't, so we've been continuing to stay home from church.

We go to the store, we go out to eat sometimes (not like we used to), but we have tried to be somewhat more cautious - I don't want my wife to get sick, and even though she volunteers in the local free clinic, she is categorized as Group 3, which I think means she'll get vaccinated sometime in the summer or fall, at this rate. :blush:

But I've mostly stopped wearing my mask in the grocery store - I still wear it in the clinic, although I will often remove it when actually IN the room with patients and tell them they can do so, as well. We want people wearing them in public areas. We actually had a very contentious vote on this subject in our weekly physicians' meeting last week - we nearly got rid of the mask mandate, but it got kinda snippy, so one person swung their vote back to keep it in place a while longer. We know the time is coming to get rid of the mandate, but not everyone is ready for that, yet.

I did wear my mask in church going to and from my seat, I didn't hang around and hobnob with folks (I'm kinda antisocial, lol).

It's funny, we decided to do the early YouTube church service, as my wife is going up to the church for a class she wanted to attend that started a couple weeks ago and runs during the late service. I'm not going to that because I've already done the same class through my Sunday evening men's group. But after the first service, I just felt like I wanted to go to the live, in-person service. So I did. Same songs, same message, etc., but I just decided, "I'm done with virtual church," so I went ahead and went on in.

Chairs are more spaced out (more room between rows), looks like maybe ½ of the previous crowd there, maybe a little more.

I just thought I'd share. I dunno how many here are doing online church, skipping altogether, or have gone back yet. I realize some of you think going to church at all is moronic, that's ok. I just felt like sharing, I know some people are struggling with this type of decision about now.

I don't remember exactly when we started going back to in person services but we're definitely spaced out more and wear masks to and from our seats. So far so good.
 

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