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<blockquote data-quote="Chibellie" data-source="post: 2782345" data-attributes="member: 30958"><p>Sorry, I've had a lot to deal with. I do just want to do what is best for my child. I've been talking to other parents that have been in my shoes and their advice was to let the child go and figure it out for themselves that living with the other parent isn't always Disneyland. It's not that I want to make my life easier necessarily. It's that I want her to see that when you go to live at Disneyland, you eventually become a park employee--hence, it isn't as fun to be there anymore. The grass may be greener, but it still needs mowing...</p><p></p><p>My parents are control freaks and they're flat out scary evil people. They've already taken me to court once for something that doesn't exist: grandparents rights (Insert meme here: I don't think it means what you think it means....) and LOST. As part of their losing the case, we made a deal with them to lessen the court costs and they also can't appeal the case. They can't bring forward a new one because of double jeopardy. I am now waiting for my ex to let our daughter go to them...and then I am going to nail all of their asses to the wall with kidnapping! Three evil birds with one stone aka contempt of court and child kidnapping. I still have custody, I have not signed over anything and will not sign over anything now that I know what my ex is playing at. They have no leg to stand on with what they are trying to claim in court. My only fear now is how in the world we would pay for this if it does end up going to court. But yes, I will fight for my daughter. She might not be happiest living with us, and having to put up with 3 brothers under 3 years old, but tough cookies. Her needs are met with us and we do fun things with her when we are able.</p><p></p><p>It'd be a Jerry Springer episode if there were swinging fists and chairs...hasn't got to that point yet mercifully.</p><p></p><p>My ex keeps being vague about when he is putting her into school down there and which one. I'd love to nail him right now with kidnapping, but then my parents would still be at large. I want them all to get it for this. He says his so-called council or attorney is telling him to not return her, to not tell me anything, etc. If he does in fact have a real attorney and he isn't just talking to my dad (who likes to think he's one, but is not) then I want to see him lose his bar or whatever it is that lawyers are stripped of when they've told someone to do something illegal. He hasn't filed anything which is a big sign to me that my parents are pulling the strings on all this--they'd like to keep it out of court.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chibellie, post: 2782345, member: 30958"] Sorry, I've had a lot to deal with. I do just want to do what is best for my child. I've been talking to other parents that have been in my shoes and their advice was to let the child go and figure it out for themselves that living with the other parent isn't always Disneyland. It's not that I want to make my life easier necessarily. It's that I want her to see that when you go to live at Disneyland, you eventually become a park employee--hence, it isn't as fun to be there anymore. The grass may be greener, but it still needs mowing... My parents are control freaks and they're flat out scary evil people. They've already taken me to court once for something that doesn't exist: grandparents rights (Insert meme here: I don't think it means what you think it means....) and LOST. As part of their losing the case, we made a deal with them to lessen the court costs and they also can't appeal the case. They can't bring forward a new one because of double jeopardy. I am now waiting for my ex to let our daughter go to them...and then I am going to nail all of their asses to the wall with kidnapping! Three evil birds with one stone aka contempt of court and child kidnapping. I still have custody, I have not signed over anything and will not sign over anything now that I know what my ex is playing at. They have no leg to stand on with what they are trying to claim in court. My only fear now is how in the world we would pay for this if it does end up going to court. But yes, I will fight for my daughter. She might not be happiest living with us, and having to put up with 3 brothers under 3 years old, but tough cookies. Her needs are met with us and we do fun things with her when we are able. It'd be a Jerry Springer episode if there were swinging fists and chairs...hasn't got to that point yet mercifully. My ex keeps being vague about when he is putting her into school down there and which one. I'd love to nail him right now with kidnapping, but then my parents would still be at large. I want them all to get it for this. He says his so-called council or attorney is telling him to not return her, to not tell me anything, etc. If he does in fact have a real attorney and he isn't just talking to my dad (who likes to think he's one, but is not) then I want to see him lose his bar or whatever it is that lawyers are stripped of when they've told someone to do something illegal. He hasn't filed anything which is a big sign to me that my parents are pulling the strings on all this--they'd like to keep it out of court. [/QUOTE]
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