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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Glocktogo" data-source="post: 1318915" data-attributes="member: 1132">You will get out of a marriage exactly what you put into it. Part of that input comes before you say "I Do". If you see that the person's parents act like you'd want him to act and he respects other people, you will have better odds of success. I've heard it said that the first sign of how he will treat you is how he treats the wait staff in a restauraunt. Once you're married, you both need to put approximately the same amount of effort into the marriage or one of you will feel short changed. That can lead to hard feelings, which can ultimately lead to resentment. Resentment will be the death of a marriage. The key to avoiding this is open communications between you.Good luck!</blockquote>