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<blockquote data-quote="338Shooter" data-source="post: 1310838" data-attributes="member: 3449">Hmmm, if you can find a good counselor I think you have hope.&nbsp; I like your excuse as to why you don&#039;t do everything for her like you used to.&nbsp; You don&#039;t have time right? What do we do when there is something we really desire? We do everything in our power to devote as much time and energy to that.&nbsp; You have to get back to that state of mind.&nbsp; You have time for anything you want to do, but not everything you want to do.&nbsp; Maybe you need to give up a hobby or stop taking those extra shifts at work.&nbsp; I don&#039;t know.&nbsp; There is something you need to do.&nbsp; Don&#039;t try to lay blame on her.&nbsp; Take responsibility and be the one to make the effort to steer the relationship back on course.&nbsp; She&#039;ll gladly follow if she loves you.I don&#039;t know your religious/spiritual beliefs, but I believe the marriage has to be centered around God. Without God, it will never work.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="338Shooter, post: 1310838, member: 3449"] Hmmm, if you can find a good counselor I think you have hope. I like your excuse as to why you don't do everything for her like you used to. You don't have time right? What do we do when there is something we really desire? We do everything in our power to devote as much time and energy to that. You have to get back to that state of mind. You have time for anything you want to do, but not everything you want to do. Maybe you need to give up a hobby or stop taking those extra shifts at work. I don't know. There is something you need to do. Don't try to lay blame on her. Take responsibility and be the one to make the effort to steer the relationship back on course. She'll gladly follow if she loves you. I don't know your religious/spiritual beliefs, but I believe the marriage has to be centered around God. Without God, it will never work. [/QUOTE]

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