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<blockquote data-quote="onearmedman" data-source="post: 1312037" data-attributes="member: 454">Post-partum Depression?&nbsp; Underlying health issue? When was the last time she had a physical with bloodwork, including hormone levels?What&#039;s her relationship with her dad like?Those kind of questions come to mind. She sounds very isolated. How far did you move and did she have friends/family there? You might want to &quot;fix&quot; her issues and whatever is wrong, but most likely you can&#039;t. I tried to &quot;fix&quot; my wife for a few years. She finally told me I can&#039;t. She is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, so she deals with depression/ptsd/insomnia and OCD. I&#039;m not saying she has any of those issues, but you may need to put your health plan to good use to get her some help. Don&#039;t try to do this on your own.I have experienced the feelings you describe and still do at times. If you let the anger and resentment fester, divorce is likely and that will hurt your kid and they will never be the same. You might want to give her zero affection of any kind since she doesn&#039;t want to give you the affection that all men need, but that just goes in a circle real fast and goes nowhere, like a NASCAR race.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="onearmedman, post: 1312037, member: 454"] Post-partum Depression? Underlying health issue? When was the last time she had a physical with bloodwork, including hormone levels? What's her relationship with her dad like? Those kind of questions come to mind. She sounds very isolated. How far did you move and did she have friends/family there? You might want to "fix" her issues and whatever is wrong, but most likely you can't. I tried to "fix" my wife for a few years. She finally told me I can't. She is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, so she deals with depression/ptsd/insomnia and OCD. I'm not saying she has any of those issues, but you may need to put your health plan to good use to get her some help. Don't try to do this on your own. I have experienced the feelings you describe and still do at times. If you let the anger and resentment fester, divorce is likely and that will hurt your kid and they will never be the same. You might want to give her zero affection of any kind since she doesn't want to give you the affection that all men need, but that just goes in a circle real fast and goes nowhere, like a NASCAR race. [/QUOTE]

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