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<blockquote data-quote="CHenry" data-source="post: 1312504" data-attributes="member: 6281"><p>It sounds to me like you are looking towards her for happiness and she you. You must first be happy with YOUR life before you take on a wife. If you are married because your looking for happiness, your doomed before you start.</p><p>Find something about each of you that is enjoyable (by yourself) and focus on happy by yourself. If there's something missing in your life, find it by yourself but don't lean on your spouse for your happiness. look at her for added happiness after your happy with you. </p><p>Seek a good counselor and take advantage of there knowledge. I know a good one who really turned my marriage around in just 4-5 hour sessions. Cost me 100 bucks an hour but for 500 bucks total, it was well worth it because the divorce would have cost much more. And after the 5th session, he told us we had it figured out and really didn't need his help anymore but also said his door was always open.</p><p>That was 5 years ago and we are still very happy and using his techniques.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CHenry, post: 1312504, member: 6281"] It sounds to me like you are looking towards her for happiness and she you. You must first be happy with YOUR life before you take on a wife. If you are married because your looking for happiness, your doomed before you start. Find something about each of you that is enjoyable (by yourself) and focus on happy by yourself. If there's something missing in your life, find it by yourself but don't lean on your spouse for your happiness. look at her for added happiness after your happy with you. Seek a good counselor and take advantage of there knowledge. I know a good one who really turned my marriage around in just 4-5 hour sessions. Cost me 100 bucks an hour but for 500 bucks total, it was well worth it because the divorce would have cost much more. And after the 5th session, he told us we had it figured out and really didn't need his help anymore but also said his door was always open. That was 5 years ago and we are still very happy and using his techniques. [/QUOTE]
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