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<blockquote data-quote="HMFIC" data-source="post: 1943336" data-attributes="member: 7539"><p>Give me a call if you want/need to talk brother.&nbsp; I went down that road of reconciliation and in hindsight it was worth it to spend more 100% time with the kids (but I should have protected myself better and made mistakes there), but the writing was on the wall and the eventual further split and heartache involved was inevitable.&nbsp; If you&#039;re making excuses for her now, you&#039;ll likely be making them for her again only you might even been in a worse position and have wasted time that you could have used bettering yourself and finding someone who REALLY will commit and love you.&nbsp; There is something to be said for counseling and trying to communicate and make things better, but in the end, both of you have to WANT it and be CAPABLE of it...&nbsp; sometimes it just boils down to not being truly compatible at that level.&nbsp; You have to be able to identify the truth and possibilities... be realistic and separate it from emotions which is hard to do.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="HMFIC, post: 1943336, member: 7539"] Give me a call if you want/need to talk brother. I went down that road of reconciliation and in hindsight it was worth it to spend more 100% time with the kids (but I should have protected myself better and made mistakes there), but the writing was on the wall and the eventual further split and heartache involved was inevitable. If you're making excuses for her now, you'll likely be making them for her again only you might even been in a worse position and have wasted time that you could have used bettering yourself and finding someone who REALLY will commit and love you. There is something to be said for counseling and trying to communicate and make things better, but in the end, both of you have to WANT it and be CAPABLE of it... sometimes it just boils down to not being truly compatible at that level. You have to be able to identify the truth and possibilities... be realistic and separate it from emotions which is hard to do. [/QUOTE]

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