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Message: <blockquote data-quote="CHenry" data-source="post: 1945358" data-attributes="member: 6281">This sounds exactly like my story, she dumped it on me the week after we got back from vacation the first week of July. She was moving the last week of july and I helped her move - Didn't want others in my house helping her. We have been civil and she even continued to come over and do my laundry if I would let her do hers and Zachs. I was a fool and let her for about 4 weeks then told her to find a laundromat. I bought new locks for the house and changed them the next day and changed the code to the overhead opener. She doesn't know yet cause she hasn't tried to come in, she always calls and asked when she can come over if she needs to get something. I'm refinancing the house now so I can afford to eat more than canned chili and rice. The house payment is currently 41% of my single income and thats dangerously high. So we are both not in a hurry, just trying to regroup and then we will settle on some cash settlement hopefully and be ready to file. Shes having second thoughts now and part of me wants to still work it out if she will commit to counseling to address her communication issue. There are things that have bothered her for some time apparently and I never knew it. I used to tell my friends I had the coolest wife ever because she never complained about anything I did...well, that apparently didn't mean there weren't things that bothered her, she just couldn't confront me and tell me. I'm 100% sure shes not seeing anyone else so to me our problem is fairly easy to fix if shes willing to try. To this day she hasn't talked to me and given me a solid reason for her unhappiness.</blockquote>

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