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<blockquote data-quote="bettingpython" data-source="post: 1950082" data-attributes="member: 4307">I am leaving her alone, told her the truth I didn&#039;t have the heart to file the papers so I am just going to leave her alone. She is gonna have to be the one to file, she still loves me so maybe time can heal the damage I have done.I am working on getting right with myself I suffer from depression and anxiety, for 20+ years I have pretended to be normal and happy in public, but when I get behind locked doors I let the act drop and as much as I love her my words and my tone have hurt her. It took me melting down completely to talk to someone qualified to help me. A friend I met here on OSA is the one that convinced me to go get help. I&#039;m working on me right now another friend I met here on OSA helped me out telling me the same thing I knew in my heart that I can&#039;t work on a marriage when she doesn&#039;t want to and I just have to focus on making myself whole.&nbsp; It takes 2 whole people to make a marriage work not 2 halves.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="bettingpython, post: 1950082, member: 4307"] I am leaving her alone, told her the truth I didn't have the heart to file the papers so I am just going to leave her alone. She is gonna have to be the one to file, she still loves me so maybe time can heal the damage I have done. I am working on getting right with myself I suffer from depression and anxiety, for 20+ years I have pretended to be normal and happy in public, but when I get behind locked doors I let the act drop and as much as I love her my words and my tone have hurt her. It took me melting down completely to talk to someone qualified to help me. A friend I met here on OSA is the one that convinced me to go get help. I'm working on me right now another friend I met here on OSA helped me out telling me the same thing I knew in my heart that I can't work on a marriage when she doesn't want to and I just have to focus on making myself whole. It takes 2 whole people to make a marriage work not 2 halves. [/QUOTE]

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