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<blockquote data-quote="John6185" data-source="post: 3607429" data-attributes="member: 25679">I agree, having a Prenuptial&nbsp; agreement and separate accounts indicates that one is not really sure of the marriage and if one isn&#039;t sure-perhaps marriage isnt&#039; for you.&nbsp; It sows the seeds of distrust and could lead to hiding things...On to your property-have you ever sold something and later wish you hadn&#039;t?&nbsp; It will no longer be within your control or ownership and someone else will own it and do as they please with whatever you sold-in this case it is property.&nbsp; Obviously, you are short on money presently and that may improve but if you sell your home and the &quot;arrangement&quot; doesn&#039;t work out, where are you going to live?&nbsp; The money from the sale of your property won&#039;t last forever and is easily spent and it will soon be gone and you&#039;ll be left holding an empty bag.&nbsp; Think hard on this, once it&#039;s gone-it&#039;s gone never to return.&nbsp; I want to sell my home and move also but I&#039;m not selling until I have another home in my name because land and homes are scarce at present.They say that marriage is a 50-50 arrangement but would one want to get into a situation that both sides are only putting in 50%?&nbsp; It should be 100% on both sides for it to work.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="John6185, post: 3607429, member: 25679"] I agree, having a Prenuptial agreement and separate accounts indicates that one is not really sure of the marriage and if one isn't sure-perhaps marriage isnt' for you. It sows the seeds of distrust and could lead to hiding things... On to your property-have you ever sold something and later wish you hadn't? It will no longer be within your control or ownership and someone else will own it and do as they please with whatever you sold-in this case it is property. Obviously, you are short on money presently and that may improve but if you sell your home and the "arrangement" doesn't work out, where are you going to live? The money from the sale of your property won't last forever and is easily spent and it will soon be gone and you'll be left holding an empty bag. Think hard on this, once it's gone-it's gone never to return. I want to sell my home and move also but I'm not selling until I have another home in my name because land and homes are scarce at present. They say that marriage is a 50-50 arrangement but would one want to get into a situation that both sides are only putting in 50%? It should be 100% on both sides for it to work. [/QUOTE]

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