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Message: <blockquote data-quote="El Pablo" data-source="post: 3616850" data-attributes="member: 1563">We keep checking accounts separate, works for us 16 years and going. It’s our money though. To make it easy, they are joint account that we keep separate.If I felt I needed to hide money, I’d never have said yes, much less asked her to marry me.  Like you said, you are all in, or you are not.I would recommend a prenup in one case, both of you have children going into marriage, especially adult children.  Use a prenump for inheritance. I’ve seen that go wrong too many times. Where ones heirs gets screwed out of family multi generation property by  the surviving spouses children. Use prenups for that.It you get married, just start it off right and have at least one trust trust, and have wills, medical detectives, etc all setup from the start.</blockquote>