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<blockquote data-quote="nofearfactor" data-source="post: 2015285" data-attributes="member: 1535"><p>Actually celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary tomorrow on 12-12-12. Taking the wife to see Cirque Du Soleil. Not our first show of theirs but we havent seen this version so it will be fun and I got her some great seats too, almost front row. With dinner afterwards I'm covered well this year. It's the least I can do for torturing her for the last 9 years.</p><p></p><p>Im a rock/metal musician and an artist, so, being without a girlfriend or a wife youre usually either living with a bunch of smelly often drunk dudes, alone, or homeless, so its usually best to always be with someone. Luckily I own a share of some family properties in California and I built myself a small Aframe cabin home after graduating post highschool school on land we own up in the Sierra mountains. Been playing music professionally since I was in highschool and now more than 20 something years later Im still at it but almost thru with it. And I'm still living with women. I somehow have always just connected the dots- would usually meet a new girlfriend while still with another one but justified it by thinking that things may have been going wrong in the relationship, etc. Classic azzhat behavior. </p><p></p><p>I am currently with wife number 4, she was girlfriend number???. This one may be the one though- though you never really know for sure I suppose. While youre alive anyways. In addition to the music business Im also a self employed small businessman/entrepreneur in a few small ventures, one of which is with my last ex-wife, Mrs #3 and her new husband. Everything is working out great with them, probably because we share a child, now 18. I also have 3 other children with 3 different mothers. And now am helping raise 2 stepchildren with my current wife after their father passed away 7 years ago. Its a crazy life at our house.</p><p></p><p>I met my Tulsa born and raised wife I'm with today in San Francisco. She was there on vacation with a couple of bff's and I was playing in one of the bands they saw at a show at a club, but we formally met at a late night after show party. It was after midnight so it was February 15th. And I happened to be totally 100% single at the time. We had a good time hanging out, exchanged numbers when it was time to go, but I figured like with the thousands of other people you meet in life and never reconnect with that I would most likely never see her again. A few days later she called me and we made a date to get together before she went back to Oklahoma. I took her to my brothers place in Monterey where we spent an awesome day. Took her to the aquarium, and the beach even though it was a cold day. Typical Pacific ocean day in February. Saw her the day she left and exchanged more info. After she left we Emailed alot. Called each other alot. A few months later I went to Des Moines to work in the business with my ex and after we were finished I decided to go down to Tulsa and spend the weekend visiting ol girl. Since my mom and stepdad dont live far from Tulsa I had a place to stay. Didnt matter, her ex had her kids for the weekend so she was free and I ended up staying at her house. On the couch. The first night anyways. The second night it snowed and was really cold so she invited me to her warmer bed. I was a good boy too. The next day I went back to Cali, but thought about her alot. Burned up Emails, texts, late night phone calls. Traveled back and forth alot. Well, it was more me doing the traveling because she had a busy corporate officer job and 2 kids. Did the long distance thing for about 6 months, but had gradually moved some of my stuff in to her place in Oklahoma as I spent more and more time here. 5 months later we got married. </p><p></p><p>And Im still traveling between Tulsa, Des Moines, and northern California. Would love for her to retire with me to my place up on the mountain in northern California some day but her family is all here so it will have to be back and forth since I have family here and in California.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nofearfactor, post: 2015285, member: 1535"] Actually celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary tomorrow on 12-12-12. Taking the wife to see Cirque Du Soleil. Not our first show of theirs but we havent seen this version so it will be fun and I got her some great seats too, almost front row. With dinner afterwards I'm covered well this year. It's the least I can do for torturing her for the last 9 years. Im a rock/metal musician and an artist, so, being without a girlfriend or a wife youre usually either living with a bunch of smelly often drunk dudes, alone, or homeless, so its usually best to always be with someone. Luckily I own a share of some family properties in California and I built myself a small Aframe cabin home after graduating post highschool school on land we own up in the Sierra mountains. Been playing music professionally since I was in highschool and now more than 20 something years later Im still at it but almost thru with it. And I'm still living with women. I somehow have always just connected the dots- would usually meet a new girlfriend while still with another one but justified it by thinking that things may have been going wrong in the relationship, etc. Classic azzhat behavior. I am currently with wife number 4, she was girlfriend number???. This one may be the one though- though you never really know for sure I suppose. While youre alive anyways. In addition to the music business Im also a self employed small businessman/entrepreneur in a few small ventures, one of which is with my last ex-wife, Mrs #3 and her new husband. Everything is working out great with them, probably because we share a child, now 18. I also have 3 other children with 3 different mothers. And now am helping raise 2 stepchildren with my current wife after their father passed away 7 years ago. Its a crazy life at our house. I met my Tulsa born and raised wife I'm with today in San Francisco. She was there on vacation with a couple of bff's and I was playing in one of the bands they saw at a show at a club, but we formally met at a late night after show party. It was after midnight so it was February 15th. And I happened to be totally 100% single at the time. We had a good time hanging out, exchanged numbers when it was time to go, but I figured like with the thousands of other people you meet in life and never reconnect with that I would most likely never see her again. A few days later she called me and we made a date to get together before she went back to Oklahoma. I took her to my brothers place in Monterey where we spent an awesome day. Took her to the aquarium, and the beach even though it was a cold day. Typical Pacific ocean day in February. Saw her the day she left and exchanged more info. After she left we Emailed alot. Called each other alot. A few months later I went to Des Moines to work in the business with my ex and after we were finished I decided to go down to Tulsa and spend the weekend visiting ol girl. Since my mom and stepdad dont live far from Tulsa I had a place to stay. Didnt matter, her ex had her kids for the weekend so she was free and I ended up staying at her house. On the couch. The first night anyways. The second night it snowed and was really cold so she invited me to her warmer bed. I was a good boy too. The next day I went back to Cali, but thought about her alot. Burned up Emails, texts, late night phone calls. Traveled back and forth alot. Well, it was more me doing the traveling because she had a busy corporate officer job and 2 kids. Did the long distance thing for about 6 months, but had gradually moved some of my stuff in to her place in Oklahoma as I spent more and more time here. 5 months later we got married. And Im still traveling between Tulsa, Des Moines, and northern California. Would love for her to retire with me to my place up on the mountain in northern California some day but her family is all here so it will have to be back and forth since I have family here and in California. [/QUOTE]
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