And we are more alike than I thought. If a guy didn't "entertain" me "properly" meaning if he didn't leave me as satisfied as I know I left him, there were NO second dates. I'm not bragging but a lot of guys knew where my apartment was, but they didn't get invited in more than once. It's really not that hard to rock someone's world -- pay attention, read the cues (verbal and non) and do what you do best.
I actually had a guy tell me one time "I'm sorry. It'll be better next time." I asked him what made him think there was gonna be a next time?? He sent me a dozen roses to work at BOTH my jobs the next day with a card saying he was sorry but he'd never met a woman like me and he'd like a second chance. He also walked through the door of the bar I worked at to "catch" me kissing the DJ. I saw him first and Jeff was the closest thing to a man I could find at the time.
And before y'all get to thinking I'd lost out on a catch, if he'd really cared about what I thought of him he wouldn't have pulled the stunt he did. (Got his and literally jumped up outta bed, saying he had to go but he'd make it up to me later and he "promised" next time would be better.
Lol I may be not be the sharpest tool in the shed, but I'm not the dullest either.To be honest I was kind surprised that anyone wanted a second date. I made it clear there was nothing going on but a "mutual satisfaction" thing. I wasn't looking to get tied down but several guys really tried to do just that with me. Hell, even Grumpy had to work at it to get me to the courthouse. I am just not the marrying type.
