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<blockquote data-quote="HMFIC" data-source="post: 1851470" data-attributes="member: 7539">This type of thing seems to be going around...&nbsp; way too prevalent.First, I&#039;m sorry and I feel everything you do.&nbsp; I&#039;ve gone through a similar and worse situation over the course of the last two and a half years with her leaving, coming back and then leaving again and all the time acting foolish, hateful, manipulative, and going to extreme measures just to attempt to have control over the kids.This last time... Okie98 gave me some real clarity with just a couple of sentences.&nbsp; He said to not look back on her, she&#039;s made her choice.&nbsp; Also to keep in mind that your kids will remember every moment you share with them and to make the best of those moments.&nbsp; Thanks Al, I still hear those words from you in my head and they help.It&#039;s still hard to not get caught up on all of the drama that she may create and to not let your emotions get the best of you, but your kids will need you now more than ever to be a pillar for them even when you&#039;re not with them all of the time.&nbsp; Trust in God to be your pillar too and to give you the strength you need to stand tall and weather the storm.&nbsp; It will get better eventually.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="HMFIC, post: 1851470, member: 7539"] This type of thing seems to be going around... way too prevalent. First, I'm sorry and I feel everything you do. I've gone through a similar and worse situation over the course of the last two and a half years with her leaving, coming back and then leaving again and all the time acting foolish, hateful, manipulative, and going to extreme measures just to attempt to have control over the kids. This last time... Okie98 gave me some real clarity with just a couple of sentences. He said to not look back on her, she's made her choice. Also to keep in mind that your kids will remember every moment you share with them and to make the best of those moments. Thanks Al, I still hear those words from you in my head and they help. It's still hard to not get caught up on all of the drama that she may create and to not let your emotions get the best of you, but your kids will need you now more than ever to be a pillar for them even when you're not with them all of the time. Trust in God to be your pillar too and to give you the strength you need to stand tall and weather the storm. It will get better eventually. [/QUOTE]

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