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<blockquote data-quote="RidgeHunter" data-source="post: 1364649" data-attributes="member: 4319">:bsflagsmiley:She was a woman, right? You find her attractive and enjoyed her company? She was on your ladder.<a href="http://www.laddertheory.com/" target="_blank">http://www.laddertheory.com/</a>I think the &quot;stop looking&quot; is bad advice. You have to ALWAYS be looking, or else you&#039;ll never find anything, and if something finds you...you&#039;ll shut it down (or not recognize it) if you&#039;ve cleared the &quot;looking&quot; from your mind. Everyone that found their spouse while they were &quot;not looking&quot; was actually looking to some degree, whether they realize it or not. If they were truly not looking, they would have said &quot;Get away from me woman, I&#039;m not looking!&quot; and still be single.The key distinction is, don&#039;t start (or stop if you have started) DESPERATELY looking. That&#039;s a good way to wake up one morning and wonder why someone you hate is sitting in your kitchen eating the last of your favorite cereal. Learn to be content with your excess money, spare time and freedom until you find someone worth trading it for. With any luck they&#039;ll have money, so you&#039;ll only have to give up 2 of 3.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="RidgeHunter, post: 1364649, member: 4319"] :bsflagsmiley: She was a woman, right? You find her attractive and enjoyed her company? She was on your ladder. [URL="http://www.laddertheory.com/"]http://www.laddertheory.com/[/URL] I think the "stop looking" is bad advice. You have to ALWAYS be looking, or else you'll never find anything, and if something finds you...you'll shut it down (or not recognize it) if you've cleared the "looking" from your mind. Everyone that found their spouse while they were "not looking" was actually looking to some degree, whether they realize it or not. If they were truly not looking, they would have said "Get away from me woman, I'm not looking!" and still be single. [I]The key distinction is, don't start (or stop if you have started) DESPERATELY looking.[/I] That's a good way to wake up one morning and wonder why someone you hate is sitting in your kitchen eating the last of your favorite cereal. Learn to be content with your excess money, spare time and freedom until you find someone worth trading it for. With any luck they'll have money, so you'll only have to give up 2 of 3. [/QUOTE]

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