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<blockquote data-quote="HMFIC" data-source="post: 2109892" data-attributes="member: 7539">I&#039;m just going to throw it out there that sometimes it&#039;s also best to know when to throw in the towel.&nbsp; Only you can know if that&#039;s the case, but I&#039;m going to be the voice on here that tells you to find a way to take a step back and really examine things too.I spent 15 years, countless hours and dollars all for naught.&nbsp; My ex did nothing but drag me down and now I&#039;m basically starting over again in life at 44.&nbsp; That&#039;s no excuse, I allowed it to happen and I take responsibility... I saw the signs, I knew the price and yet I continued on thinking it would get better and throwing everything into it.&nbsp; In the end, it was simply not possible... I had a person who was working against me at every turn due to her mental illness.&nbsp; I&#039;m all for giving it a chance and doing everything possible to save things.&nbsp; Just don&#039;t waste 15 years like I did...</blockquote>

[QUOTE="HMFIC, post: 2109892, member: 7539"] I'm just going to throw it out there that sometimes it's also best to know when to throw in the towel. Only you can know if that's the case, but I'm going to be the voice on here that tells you to find a way to take a step back and really examine things too. I spent 15 years, countless hours and dollars all for naught. My ex did nothing but drag me down and now I'm basically starting over again in life at 44. That's no excuse, I allowed it to happen and I take responsibility... I saw the signs, I knew the price and yet I continued on thinking it would get better and throwing everything into it. In the end, it was simply not possible... I had a person who was working against me at every turn due to her mental illness. I'm all for giving it a chance and doing everything possible to save things. Just don't waste 15 years like I did... [/QUOTE]

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