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<blockquote data-quote="Annie" data-source="post: 3180597" data-attributes="member: 42224"><p>You are not alone. They say the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. I have found that to be true -- I do not hate my family any longer, I just simply do not care. The only feelings I have at are from time to time is a regret for what could have been if any one of them had been an even remotely different person. </p><p></p><p>There are plenty of folks here who can attest to the fact that I do not hold grudges. I simply learn my lesson, cut my losses and move on. I am still friends with a few of you guys no matter how others have tried to influence that. That's how my entire family is -- once I was old enough to fight back against the sexual, physical and psychological abuse then they did their best to destroy every good relationship I had. So when others do that **** now I tend to just walk away. Others who got caught up in the BS have made their way back and there is nothing wrong with bygones being bygones. </p><p></p><p>There won't be anyone at my funeral and I'm good with that. I'm more about plain old peace and quiet now. The noise is always there, though. Just a little quieter now that those people who do not have my best interests at heart know, from my actions, that while they may cross my mind from time to time, it is only to serve to remind me what I have survived and to be grateful for what I have now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Annie, post: 3180597, member: 42224"] You are not alone. They say the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. I have found that to be true -- I do not hate my family any longer, I just simply do not care. The only feelings I have at are from time to time is a regret for what could have been if any one of them had been an even remotely different person. There are plenty of folks here who can attest to the fact that I do not hold grudges. I simply learn my lesson, cut my losses and move on. I am still friends with a few of you guys no matter how others have tried to influence that. That's how my entire family is -- once I was old enough to fight back against the sexual, physical and psychological abuse then they did their best to destroy every good relationship I had. So when others do that **** now I tend to just walk away. Others who got caught up in the BS have made their way back and there is nothing wrong with bygones being bygones. There won't be anyone at my funeral and I'm good with that. I'm more about plain old peace and quiet now. The noise is always there, though. Just a little quieter now that those people who do not have my best interests at heart know, from my actions, that while they may cross my mind from time to time, it is only to serve to remind me what I have survived and to be grateful for what I have now. [/QUOTE]
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