I know. I wonder if I handled it the right way sometimes.
He wants you to think that, he wants you to feel like you screwed up. You did not, he did, never foget that. Call the prosecutor first thing in the morning, turn the heat up. Let them know he is avoiding you, will not return calls or messages, if needed document through your phone records the number of times you have called his number.
Time to be a mean unforgiving man.
Just my opinion.