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<blockquote data-quote="BIG_MIKE2005" data-source="post: 2112184" data-attributes="member: 3309">Sounds like he honestly needs to grow up &amp; be an adult. Possibly forced to do so by sitting in jail going through treatment there. It sounds like weather he is a good worker or not he cannot handle having his own money and cannot control himself. The only way to remove his ability right now is to remove the money &amp; the only way to remove the money &amp; him not be homeless is him sitting in jail or a halfway house for rehab patients.I&#039;m not tryin to sound cruel, so please don&#039;t take offense. I have had a few similar situation in my family over the years &amp; it&#039;s extremely hard to deal with. The options I&#039;m giving are options we had to try for our family members as well. Some people just lack the direction or willpower to change their lives. and since you said he always makes excuses I&#039;ll say he lacks the willpower to be responsible. Which also means he will most likely have to be forced to see the light &amp; change.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BIG_MIKE2005, post: 2112184, member: 3309"] Sounds like he honestly needs to grow up & be an adult. Possibly forced to do so by sitting in jail going through treatment there. It sounds like weather he is a good worker or not he cannot handle having his own money and cannot control himself. The only way to remove his ability right now is to remove the money & the only way to remove the money & him not be homeless is him sitting in jail or a halfway house for rehab patients. I'm not tryin to sound cruel, so please don't take offense. I have had a few similar situation in my family over the years & it's extremely hard to deal with. The options I'm giving are options we had to try for our family members as well. Some people just lack the direction or willpower to change their lives. and since you said he always makes excuses I'll say he lacks the willpower to be responsible. Which also means he will most likely have to be forced to see the light & change. [/QUOTE]

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