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Message: <blockquote data-quote="ghostrider" data-source="post: 1360240" data-attributes="member: 14954"><p>I was married for 17 years to a wonderful woman. She is an accountant for a major car rental company here and I worked at the other end of the same company. She started hanging around a bunch of people in her department who shall I say for the sake of political correctness lived alternative lifestyles and single woman 1/2 her age. They went to bars and drank and partied. I watched as it became more and more frequent. When I would wake up for work, I could here her saying guys names in her sleep. When i woke her up to ask what her dream was about, she became angry and defensive for waking her up and that she didn't know what she was dreaming. She filed for a divorce claiming all kinds of accusations. I tried twice to reconcile with her as I knew she needed help. The counselor we were seeing diagnosed her with clinical depression and bi-polar. Its been two years since the divorce and the child we share custody with calls me frequently to tell me how Mom came home drunk or called and asked me to pick her up she had too much to drink. I was told she finally admitted to having a drinking problem but I don't think she is seeking help. I guess what I'm trying to say is that not only drugs, but alcohol can destroy lives and family. I don't blame you for being angry and your feelings. You did the right thing.</p></blockquote><p></p>