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<blockquote data-quote="RidgeHunter" data-source="post: 2523324" data-attributes="member: 4319"><p>Interesting topic to discuss objectively, though. I brought to many personal tales to this thread for that to happen.</p><p></p><p>Most people here would call me a feminazi. I was raised with women being a strong leading part of my family, not stronger than men, but they were damn sure about equal. My grandma is 86 and very religious and she holds the belief that you have sex after you get married and you do not have sex with anyone but your spouse. It's obscene to think anyone would do different to her. If you only have sex with your spouse, why is there any "risk" involved in having opposite-sex friends? God forbid one of your friends threaten your marriage by trying to cheat with you, too. Who would do that? You keep friends like that? That's her view. It's insulting and obscene to her to even imply cheating would happen, especially among friends. She lived it, too. </p><p></p><p>Then my mom is a crazy liberal who drilled into my head that "friendzone" doesn't exist. Women are people. Talk to them and make friends with them, some you will sleep with and some you won't. Some will be sexual partners and some won't. If you want to get laid, and your female freinds aren't game, go find another girl. "Friendzone" became a pejorative at women 'stringing guys along' or 'using' them when really it's a descriptor of a bitter loser who pines for what he can't have rather than going out and getting something he can have. If a guy is speding his time trying to sleep with a woman who doesn't want to sleep with him, it's his fault if he feels 'friendzoned'. You shouldn't spend time with any woman who's sleeping with you if you wouldn't spend time with her if she wasn't. Women outnumber us. I don't see why people engage or are tempted to engage in drama-bringing sex. Don't dip your pen in the company ink, that kinda advice makes sense to me. Even when I was single I shied away from drama-bringing sex. Go rub one out and still see if it seems like a good decision. The next night go find a damn date that won't bring as much stress to your life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RidgeHunter, post: 2523324, member: 4319"] Interesting topic to discuss objectively, though. I brought to many personal tales to this thread for that to happen. Most people here would call me a feminazi. I was raised with women being a strong leading part of my family, not stronger than men, but they were damn sure about equal. My grandma is 86 and very religious and she holds the belief that you have sex after you get married and you do not have sex with anyone but your spouse. It's obscene to think anyone would do different to her. If you only have sex with your spouse, why is there any "risk" involved in having opposite-sex friends? God forbid one of your friends threaten your marriage by trying to cheat with you, too. Who would do that? You keep friends like that? That's her view. It's insulting and obscene to her to even imply cheating would happen, especially among friends. She lived it, too. Then my mom is a crazy liberal who drilled into my head that "friendzone" doesn't exist. Women are people. Talk to them and make friends with them, some you will sleep with and some you won't. Some will be sexual partners and some won't. If you want to get laid, and your female freinds aren't game, go find another girl. "Friendzone" became a pejorative at women 'stringing guys along' or 'using' them when really it's a descriptor of a bitter loser who pines for what he can't have rather than going out and getting something he can have. If a guy is speding his time trying to sleep with a woman who doesn't want to sleep with him, it's his fault if he feels 'friendzoned'. You shouldn't spend time with any woman who's sleeping with you if you wouldn't spend time with her if she wasn't. Women outnumber us. I don't see why people engage or are tempted to engage in drama-bringing sex. Don't dip your pen in the company ink, that kinda advice makes sense to me. Even when I was single I shied away from drama-bringing sex. Go rub one out and still see if it seems like a good decision. The next night go find a damn date that won't bring as much stress to your life. [/QUOTE]
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