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<blockquote data-quote="excat" data-source="post: 2523374" data-attributes="member: 29449"><p>That's all you can do. I wasn't trying to shoot you down or insult you so to say, just give an outside look from what you've said so far. As far as what has been said in this thread and coming here, you can't come looking for outside input, and NOT expect the results you've had so far. Lots of folks with different strokes, and many aren't particularly good at being objective when giving their input. Reason's like that is why you have to be cautious of who or where you seek outside input. Opinions aren't object. Advice (should be) is from the right source. </p><p></p><p>As far as saying you are "never" anything, be cautious with that, because when someone thinks they are never anything, they generally are that more than not, and just turned a blind eye to it. That's a free life lesson for you that took me a while to learn -- about myself and most people. Introspection is a powerful tool when used correctly, and truly objectively. </p><p></p><p>The real question you should ask yourself, is why it matter's to you a stranger's perception of a situation you are in? 15 years ago I used to worry what people thought, but then I realized the only people's opinion's that matter are the people that are actually apart of my life, and the people that I choose to be apart of my life understand me to some degree, so things like this would never be in question. No one can make everyone happy, and what matter's in the end is being happy with the people around you, not Joe Blow. </p><p></p><p>Live. Learn. Grow. Be happy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="excat, post: 2523374, member: 29449"] That's all you can do. I wasn't trying to shoot you down or insult you so to say, just give an outside look from what you've said so far. As far as what has been said in this thread and coming here, you can't come looking for outside input, and NOT expect the results you've had so far. Lots of folks with different strokes, and many aren't particularly good at being objective when giving their input. Reason's like that is why you have to be cautious of who or where you seek outside input. Opinions aren't object. Advice (should be) is from the right source. As far as saying you are "never" anything, be cautious with that, because when someone thinks they are never anything, they generally are that more than not, and just turned a blind eye to it. That's a free life lesson for you that took me a while to learn -- about myself and most people. Introspection is a powerful tool when used correctly, and truly objectively. The real question you should ask yourself, is why it matter's to you a stranger's perception of a situation you are in? 15 years ago I used to worry what people thought, but then I realized the only people's opinion's that matter are the people that are actually apart of my life, and the people that I choose to be apart of my life understand me to some degree, so things like this would never be in question. No one can make everyone happy, and what matter's in the end is being happy with the people around you, not Joe Blow. Live. Learn. Grow. Be happy. [/QUOTE]
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