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<blockquote data-quote="RidgeHunter" data-source="post: 2523379" data-attributes="member: 4319"><p>It doesn't matter, and I know that even if my actions say otherwise. </p><p></p><p>I don't get upset because I feel insulted or offended at the comments I got that spurred this thread. The reason I get upset is jealousy. I get jealous when people whose lifestyles I don't agree with, yet would never say anything mean about, get to walk right up to me and do that. I don't get to do that. I'm not that big of a jerk.</p><p></p><p>I'm the guy if I see a friend/family member in a bad relationship with an objectively bad partner, and the shittalk starts, I go "Well yeah, but maybe there is more to them than we know. Maybe they're happy. Let's not assume to much. We don't know everything about them." I would never go up without being asked and start doling out insulting advice. I really don't care enough to. Do what you want in your own life, just shut the hell up about mine. </p><p></p><p>I feel burned when people I've done that for walk right up and preach at me. Even though I should be a thousand times more secure, the urge to say "Heah, well, I know you jerks are fighting all the time and you're about to get a divorce. Have fun with that, *******! Tell me how that knowing everything thing works out for ya! I'm going camping; have fun throwing stones in your glass house!"</p><p></p><p>I'm a petty person sometimes. If crap starts being flung, I immediately want to pop a squat and fill my hand. Like I say, gimme ten years on that. I don't care what other people think. I care that they get to so rude without provocation. Verbal revenge is a crutch of mine. I want it. Probably the thing I want to change most about myself - and I am getting better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RidgeHunter, post: 2523379, member: 4319"] It doesn't matter, and I know that even if my actions say otherwise. I don't get upset because I feel insulted or offended at the comments I got that spurred this thread. The reason I get upset is jealousy. I get jealous when people whose lifestyles I don't agree with, yet would never say anything mean about, get to walk right up to me and do that. I don't get to do that. I'm not that big of a jerk. I'm the guy if I see a friend/family member in a bad relationship with an objectively bad partner, and the shittalk starts, I go "Well yeah, but maybe there is more to them than we know. Maybe they're happy. Let's not assume to much. We don't know everything about them." I would never go up without being asked and start doling out insulting advice. I really don't care enough to. Do what you want in your own life, just shut the hell up about mine. I feel burned when people I've done that for walk right up and preach at me. Even though I should be a thousand times more secure, the urge to say "Heah, well, I know you jerks are fighting all the time and you're about to get a divorce. Have fun with that, *******! Tell me how that knowing everything thing works out for ya! I'm going camping; have fun throwing stones in your glass house!" I'm a petty person sometimes. If crap starts being flung, I immediately want to pop a squat and fill my hand. Like I say, gimme ten years on that. I don't care what other people think. I care that they get to so rude without provocation. Verbal revenge is a crutch of mine. I want it. Probably the thing I want to change most about myself - and I am getting better. [/QUOTE]
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