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<blockquote data-quote="THAT Gurl" data-source="post: 3496839" data-attributes="member: 45551">Your wife is the woman I strive to be. I sometimes I wish I hadn&#039;t been so rough on Grumpy but then if I hadn&#039;t made him earn it the second time around would he have realized how much he hurt me and how serious I was?? I don&#039;t think so -- because he will tell you even now I don&#039;t get rattled, I don&#039;t get my feelings hurt, I don&#039;t get jealous, and generally speaking I don&#039;t get mad. I let a lot slide. Why?? Cuz I&#039;ve never been the girl anyone ever noticed. ALWAYS been the wallflower. ALWAYS been the girl who was everyone&#039;s buddy but never anyone&#039;s girl. Problem with Grumpy is he DID hurt me and I WAS his girl, so he hurt me DEEPLY. Even up until very recently -- I still had lingering doubts about if he&#039;d stay if I ever got sick ... Or hurt ... I think it&#039;s pretty safe to say he passed this last &quot;test&quot; with flying colors. <img src="/images/smilies/wink.png"&nbsp; class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=";)" title="Wink&nbsp; &nbsp; ;)" data-shortname=";)" />I will tell you something Scott&#039;s ex- said to me one afternoon when she was trying to run me off -- for the bazillionth time -- You guys deserve each other. Like all couples who lose their way -- for whatever reason -- and manage to find their way back through nothing less than sheer guts and determination -- we do, we DO deserve each other. And so do you and Cindyann.<img src="/images/smilies/image351.gif"&nbsp; class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":kiss:" title="Image351&nbsp; &nbsp; :kiss:" data-shortname=":kiss:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="THAT Gurl, post: 3496839, member: 45551"] Your wife is the woman I strive to be. I sometimes I wish I hadn't been so rough on Grumpy but then if I hadn't made him earn it the second time around would he have realized how much he hurt me and how serious I was?? I don't think so -- because he will tell you even now I don't get rattled, I don't get my feelings hurt, I don't get jealous, and generally speaking I don't get mad. I let a lot slide. Why?? Cuz I've never been the girl anyone ever noticed. ALWAYS been the wallflower. ALWAYS been the girl who was everyone's buddy but never anyone's girl. Problem with Grumpy is he DID hurt me and I WAS his girl, so he hurt me DEEPLY. Even up until very recently -- I still had lingering doubts about if he'd stay if I ever got sick ... Or hurt ... I think it's pretty safe to say he passed this last "test" with flying colors. ;) I will tell you something Scott's ex- said to me one afternoon when she was trying to run me off -- for the bazillionth time -- You guys deserve each other. Like all couples who lose their way -- for whatever reason -- and manage to find their way back through nothing less than sheer guts and determination -- we do, we DO deserve each other. And so do you and Cindyann.:kiss: [/QUOTE]

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