I am preparing to sell an Rv and the guy is from OKC (I live in OKC) and I don't want to offend him but he is going to get a cashier's check from his bank for over $20,000 and I plan on having my bank verify that the check is good before I surrender the title on the RV. I went through this once before and the buyer took offense when I asked him if I could see the check and call to make sure it was valid. I'm not giving something valued at over 20K away but I want to treat the buyer with respect and dignity as I would want to be treated. These days you can't trust even your ex-wife... How would you handle the situation?