You need to hold and shoot several, maybe many. As you hold them and shoot them, find the one or two that fit your hand(s). One or two of them will fit your hand and the sites will line up good or maybe perfect. Those are your best choices, regardless of what brand they are.
For me, they are Springfield XDM 3.8” .40, or S&W M&P 2.0 .40.
For me, they are Springfield XDM 3.8” .40, or S&W M&P 2.0 .40.