I'm willing to test out #1. Need to get my wife on board thoughI'd like your high school teacher to report back to us after
1) having 5 straight days of vigorous , exhausting sex with a demanding lover at 3-4x per day in your own home (good stress)
VS.
2) Being fired from his job and being brought up on felony charges of - almost anything (which admittedly could also lead to vigorous , exhausting sex with a demanding lover at 3-4x per day --- only not at home but face down looking at toilet water ) -- Bad stress
And see if both of those forms of stress are affecting the body the same way