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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Adhdferret" data-source="post: 4092351" data-attributes="member: 48008">Get better by the time you read this.I am doing exactly what I want to do, I am learning about others via this site. I get people don't like my views, that is awsome so long as we can discuss it and I can see their reasoning.That happens more times here than it doesn't and it is why I engage. What I do know is that what we been doing doesn't work.We need to try something else, so as such I become the change I want to see. I instill those aspects with my son as well. Granted his experience of the world is different entirely.Like education.  He has the absolute distain for teachers over 60. You want to know why?Because every single one demands "obey without delay" and that is not going to fly in my house, I encourage him to ask me for my reasons when I give him instruction.  He deserves to know more than because I said so.I deal with this often because you don't get to be the parent to my child, you had your chance, now you do your job and you do only that.Had to deal with principals, teachers, admin, and the whole gambit because he defended some autistic girl, just as I instilled with him..he never raised his hand, never did a thing but ask them to stop.But since black vs white it became so much more, then when he reported a possible school shooter it was swept under the rug till I called the local PD.Again over 65 and told me I was the problem since he needs to mind his own business. Most every single interaction I have with a "boomer" is of them telling me what it is that I should do, when honestly they are struggling themselves.I may appear hostile, and I might come back with a witty retort, I keep it respectful as I can.Also I can explain why he treated that felon better than you, it is because that person needed that help to not keep ending up in his life. You dont need that, you seem to me a good person as many others here do as well, they just put there cape on and become SUPER MAD!</blockquote>

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