Not with my mother, she is old skool Catholic I guess, she has been in a fit ever since she found out that I am going to be cremated same day I die with no service, not even a traditional indian service with a wake, etc like my family does things. I was raised Catholic, my entire maternal side of my family is Catholic and indian, but I have not been active in the church since I was in jr highschool and as Agnostic I do not want a service either.
How bout a memorial party/jam session?