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<blockquote data-quote="SomeCallMeMom" data-source="post: 2644476" data-attributes="member: 32209"><p>I would disagree with the bolded. That behavior doesn't <em>cause</em> people to become victims. No means no whether it is said in a nice tone or an authoritative tone. People become victims because someone does something to them that they did not want done. That simple overly friendly touch that is unwanted already makes them a victim. The normal reaction to confrontation is an assortment. Some freeze up, others just run and very few fight. There is no right or wrong in that, it is just natural. You can train yourself to the response you would like, but it takes time & effort. Most people don't do this until after they've been victimized and it is their way to try to regain control of a situation. </p><p>Been there & froze. Trust me, wasn't my fault & it damn sure won't happen again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SomeCallMeMom, post: 2644476, member: 32209"] I would disagree with the bolded. That behavior doesn't [I]cause[/I] people to become victims. No means no whether it is said in a nice tone or an authoritative tone. People become victims because someone does something to them that they did not want done. That simple overly friendly touch that is unwanted already makes them a victim. The normal reaction to confrontation is an assortment. Some freeze up, others just run and very few fight. There is no right or wrong in that, it is just natural. You can train yourself to the response you would like, but it takes time & effort. Most people don't do this until after they've been victimized and it is their way to try to regain control of a situation. Been there & froze. Trust me, wasn't my fault & it damn sure won't happen again. [/QUOTE]
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