I have never remembered what paper some gift was wrapped in? Maybe women do, and thats why they make such a big deal of it? And that goes for gift wrapping, bday party planning, holiday plans, etc. They try to make everything "perfect" until they're so stressed I don't want to even be around for said event LOL. I've spoken my piece on multiple occasions that the kid/kids aint going to remember what outfit was worn to some 12th bday party, but they might recall mom/aunt/etc being mad at every event