Best advice I can give on that is if ever married, both keep their own accounts for putting away surplus past shared debt, and each feel free to buy whatever they please out of it, with commentary limited to, "gee, that's nice," if not genuinely enthused. Constant criticism leads to couples such as my next door neighbor husband and wife whose lives would be empty but for the deep and abiding hate they share for each other.Yes - my occasional fiancé' has accused me of being "heartless" as well --- that situation has been needing prayers, or divine intervention for years now
"You paid how much for that watch? - Thats more than an Apple watch -- and you can't even make calls or get texts with it or anything -- its WORTHLESS !! " --( referencing half my watch collection )
"Why do you have so many guns? You can only shoot one at a time !!!"
"You should sell your old truck -- i mean , it gets bad gas mileage and doesnt even have power windows !! " (referencing my '71 Cheyenne Super)