Agreedyes, teach your kids to lie...then wonder why they don't believe you (and lie themselves) when they are adolescents...amazing
It's a complex issue. But it's partly due to the fact that kids learn to do what their parents do (i.e., social learning from role models). "Do as I say, not as I do" doesn't work.How is Elf on a Shelf teaching kids to lie?
I don't lie to my kids...Santa/Tooth Fairy/Easter Bunny/etc. included. "Everything" isn't based on physical/repeatable science, but we do approach life in an open-minded, evidence-based way. We present all perspectives on issues, then let the child make up their own mind. This does several things, including (a) it simplifies unnecessary complexities about life, (b) increases the child's curiosity and creativity, (c) increases the child's logic and reasoning ability, (d) increases the child's sense of personal responsibility, and (e) increases trust and respect between parent and child throughout the child's development and into adulthood.I'm assuming, then, that your household has no Santa, no Tooth Fairy, no Easter Bunny and nothing you can't verify via physical and repeatable scientific methods, yes?
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