You are so stuck in your patterns of thinking, so rigid in your beliefs, that you are incapable of even considering how your system perpetuates misfortune and misery.
We have rigid beliefs because our beliefs have led us to success, happiness, fortitude, temperance, respect, and confidence; neither of which brings us misfortune nor misery. What has your thinking and wishy-washy beliefs perpetuated for yourself? How has your thinking and wishy-washy beliefs delivered you from misfortune and misery?
If you are trying to convince us that your system is the best, show us how your way is the best - or even just better.
Take a day or two if you need to, but since you are already on your path, you must have had the answer for some time now.
Woody