We have picked up the bad habit of shooting clays. Am really interested in getting the missus to shooting with us...She loves handgun and shooting the 22 rifels. But he has held my 870 and made comments about it being a little heavy. I want her to shoot it to get a feel but I think the size might be a little large for her small frame. She is around 5'3 120 lbs. Anyone with experiences or advice? I wondered about the 870 youth in a 20 guage.