"Thank you so much, Jack, for this paper weight made from the tail light assembly from a '57 Plymouth, I shall treasure it forever!" "Which credit card is it charged to?"That was the point, you shouldn't have to "pay" for gifts from them to you. They should pop in with a card, pie, bottle of whiskey, or whatever you're into. Ignoring those you love at Christmas says a lot about how you feel about them.
I am retired, have zero debt, no mortgage or car payment(s),my income is more than my expenses, I give the members of my family $5K each Christmas and birthday.
I am not "ignored" I go to family functions, reunions, birthdays, etc.
Did not know starting this was going to be such an issue