Married people do not have to leave the same will, we didnt. My wife just did hers, she has PrePaid Legal as a job benefit and they helped her with it. I have a revocable trust. Our stuff is complicated because she has been married once before and Ive been 2 other times and our grown and gone children are from other people; then we had the mess of dealing with the assets that we each owned before we were married to each other and then the assets we have amassed together and who it all went to, etc etc. Plus I had family assets already in trusts before we married.