Same here on both counts.
As for good BBQ joints that are no more, how about the original Bob’s in Ada? People used to fly in to get some of Bob’s BBQ.
Bobs was awesome. I met Dub Gillum in there one night back in the 80s. Some of the old timers will remember him. He was a big cowboy who sold used cars and had hilarious commercials on the local Ada channel 10.