Ha! got it figgered out. My dumbazz son n law was here today during my nap time. And i left my tablet on the table, unprotected from the jokester.
Seems you can set the flash as a email alert. And the alarms on my phone are going off.
Now its time to plot the payback.
Exactly what I was going to tell you to check. I used to have that option set on my iPhone but it got annoying.