The key is a good holster and belt. Fact of the matter is that a loaded 9M double stack magazine is heavy even before you add the gun. I carried a Glock 26 for years but switched over to a Sig last year simply because I can shoot it better than the Glock. It would be a good idea to shoot several of the guns you are interested in before you buy. One more thing, I suggest you stick to one platform for concealed carry.