I'm just heading this one off at the pass.
http://qvga.factcheck.org/2011/10/change-in-military-funeral-protocol/
Q: Did Obama order the military to drop the words on behalf of the president of the United States when presenting the flag to the next of kin at funerals?
A: A chain email that makes that claim is wrong. Spokespersons for the Defense Department and the armed forces say that no change was ordered.
http://qvga.factcheck.org/2011/10/change-in-military-funeral-protocol/