I hear ya man; I know several people that have XD/XDS and love them, and my wife has a G17, and I'll admit, it is an accurate gun, just never been a Glock fan, and always liked the M&P's over the XD's personally. I done a scan on slickguns just now, and they show to have a CT, CW and CM Kahr, all close in price...what's the difference in those models? And do yall think that one of the Smith M&P compact 45's is worth paying $100-125 more than those Kahr models? The M&P does hold 10 vs 7/8 in the single stack guns like the Kahrs. Thanks again for all the input!
The CT is their "fullsize", the CW is the next size down, and the CM are their tiny lil' guns which IMO I'd stay away from since they're so dang small.
The CW45 is a great choice! My dad has one and it is unbelievably accurate! Now at first it might scare you because the recoil from it is snappy but after you get used to that it's nice and smooth.
Me personally, I've had problems with the M&P line. The first M&P I got was the 40c. The first day I got it it shot dead on, but every time after that it was just all over the place. I found out that S&W had been accidentally putting on the wrong sized (height) sights. I just got rid of it. Now I got a Shield in .40S&W and I love it.
I don't know much about the 45 models, from what I understand they're good, I just don't know enough about them to help you with it.