Terry, I'm grown. I take responsibility for my own life and my own actions. I'm tired of hearing people complain that things aren't fair and they cant get their way. It's the way of the world. Life isn't always fair, but we make the best we can with what we've got to work with. And you['re right. I don't really understand how things were back then. I had both parents and never realized we were poor until we weren't. My dad taught me to bust your *** to get ahead. Work for what you want. And I get disillusioned by these kids who think they can come into a new job and get managerial pay for burger flipper work. Everyone wants a hand out not a hand up.And, as for growing up, perhaps you should do a bit as well.