Well, it ain't the "Q" word, but I ain't gonna comment any more, or I'll get flamed for not being compassionate enough.
That's okay ... I've seen what you have to work with ... You've proven to me you have more compassion than most just by doing the job you do day in, day out ... or should I say night in, night out. Folks who think otherwise only do so because they are 1. f'ng morons; or 2. naive as all git out ...
Walk a mile in my shoes, as they say ...