Sounds like you're in search of El Dorado. Put some thought into it. Mix Tabasco with Frank's. The good cayenne sauces have the flavor, Tobasco has the heat.I do just that with jalapenos. I love the flavor of jalapenos, but wish they packed a bit more punch. I've tried habanero salsa, loved the spice, hated the flavor. I've tried straight habanero peppers, loved the spice, hated the flavor. I want something that not only packs a punch, but brings along a good flavor, too.
There's a Habanero sauce out there right now called Zaaschila that I'm experimenting with. I agree about the seemingly chemical taste of the habanero.
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