I know we have police officers on here, I need some help and prayer

[Lurker66]

My advice is to just distance yourself from the drama....meth and that lifestyle has a way of putting good people in jail. As hard and agrevating as it is to turn away from loved ones, its best not to involve yourself with all the bullshite.

Maybe if ya get lucky ol Rolly will get ahold of some "crocodile" and take that path.

 

[Spata]

yes maybe but not by my hands. I am not seeking violence or anything like that. I believe given time he will end up back in prison. BTW he also admitted to selling drugs to make ends meet.

You could try plan b.

1) Withdrawal $xxxx from bank
2) Buy one way plane ticket to large city on east/west coast
3) Con(make up story about how you want to bond/offer to take him to the casino on your dime) meth head to get into your car(make sure the child safety locks are on.)
4) Drive said pos to airport.
5) Hand him ticket + 1/3 of step 1.
6) If he refuses, increase amount of cash.
7) Tell him you will Western Union him the rest once he gets to his destination.
8) Escort him to security check point.

 

[CharlieMurphy]

Spata's plan b is a good one. I have had close family in similar situations. If it was just your sister it is easy to say that it is up to her but not so easy with kids involved. If he has history with other underage girls that should be enough for a restraining order but I believe the mom would need to be behind it.

Another possible solution would be to have your sister see a therapist. Obviously there is something from her past which is the reason for her being attracted to that type of man. If she was able to work out some of those issues maybe she would realize that the relationship is detrimental to her and her kids.

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[Glock 'em down]

If he is a danger to himself or others, the police can do an EOD - Emergency Order of Detention.

Basically, that means they take him into custody and transport him to whichever mental institution Choctaw uses (here in Seminole County, we use Grifiin Memorial in Norman) for an evaluation.

This will do a couple of things.

1. It will get him out of the picture for awhile, which will help your sister pull her head out of her ass.
2. It may or may not get him committed to the nervous hospital, depending on the outcome of his evaluation and the decision of the judge.

Also, falsifying a police report, that he obviously has done, is also a crime. He can be jailed for that. He can also be jailed for public intox - drugs.

 

[missyoakley]

You could try plan b.

1) Withdrawal $xxxx from bank
2) Buy one way plane ticket to large city on east/west coast
3) Con(make up story about how you want to bond/offer to take him to the casino on your dime) meth head to get into your car(make sure the child safety locks are on.)
4) Drive said pos to airport.
5) Hand him ticket + 1/3 of step 1.
6) If he refuses, increase amount of cash.
7) Tell him you will Western Union him the rest once he gets to his destination.
8) Escort him to security check point.

Has this method worked for you? I like this idea, I may try it. Who will go first?

 

[mugsy]

HK I sympathize with you, but if I understand correctly, your sister is continuing to voluntarily "see" (which I take it to mean - have some kind of a boyfriend-girlfriend sexual relationship) a known ex-con, drug using, violence prone man who has already threatened her close relatives and who she personally knows to be making false, potentially damaging police reports - is that correct?

To me this is like "helping" a drunk - you cannot "help" them against their own will at least not on a lasting basis. I'd simply let your sister know that you are there for her without judgement but that you expect her to make sensible decisions if she wants any assistance, e.g. move out and you'll help house her and the nieces, etc. but not house her for a day while she goes back at night to sleep with the boyfriend and so on. If you feel she is endangering (or allowing danger to come to) the nieces that is something else you might want to stress to her and to consider for yourself. Ultimately, if she won't voluntarily leave this guy there is little you can do for her - depending on the ages of the nieces maybe you can do more for them.
BTW does the father of the girls have any concerns or input to this situation? If child endangerment is involved DHS might be an option too. Just know that once the door is open to DHS things can leave your ability to control.

 

[ratski]

Ever seen the movie Strangers on a Train?

I feel your pain.

My daughter has a tendency to be drawn to emotional abusers.
But, she is an adult and even though my grandson is in the house, there is very little I can legally do.
Especially since she refuses to do anything herself.

Dave

 

[Spata]

Has this method worked for you? I like this idea, I may try it. Who will go first?

I've had to use it a couple of times. 1st guy went to Portland, me. He called the next day for the rest of his money. The 2nd guy went to San Francisco, never heard from him again.

 

[tul9033]

Is he on probation or parole? Contact his PO...

 

[CODE_3]

His word against yours.