That is the VE model...very different
I would agree with some of the others and go with a revolver. Goes bang every time and not any extra stuff to go wrong. Get one made for .357 then start practicing with .38 and move up to .357 mag. That's how I started introducing my wife to pistols and while she can shoot a semi-auto, she always goes back to her revolver as her preference. Besides, there will definitely be more guns to come!
Because the OP stated he and his Wife have little experience. I may be wrong, but I saw nothing about a J frame. On that I agree with you, but for a person with little or no experience. They should start with a revolver. OP stated it will be used for HD. They don't need to be trying to mess around with a safety or trying to chamber a round or if a Glock limp wristing it and get a FTF or FTE.
Have you done any mods, or is it just the stock M&P9?I have a M&P9 and would take it through hell and back if I needed to, no issues with it for me and I love it.
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