I think part of the reason is to be a "gray man," not to display sexual preference. I like hip carry, under a shirt or ITW so no one notices me or my firearm. Being fashionable in some cases is "blending in." Just like going to a wedding where everyone is wearing suits you do not want to be "that guy" wearing the yellow neck high pullover sweater with a shirt and tie. Don't stand out.If a man wearing a fannypack is “gay” then caring about another man wearing a fannypack is equally “gay.” Stop asking fashion advice and caring what other guys are doing. If wearing a fanny pack means you are carrying a gun more often then by all means do it everyday and stop giving a sh$t what other people think.