Whoa...Whoa...Whoa... You people are acting like your children belong to you. Didn't you see MSNBC's public service announcement? The kids you feed and let live in your house belong to the community.
Not the community, the state...
parens patriae
(paa-rens pat-tree-eye) n. Latin for "father of his country," the term for the doctrine that the government is the ultimate guardian of all people under a disability, especially children, whose care is only "entrusted" to their parents. Under this doctrine, in a divorce action or a guardianship application the court retains jurisdiction until the child is 18 years old, and a judge may change custody, child support or other rulings affecting the child's well-being, no matter what the parents may have agreed or the court previously decided.
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